You knew you were lost as soon as you saw her

 Her haircut, she looked what she'd made her
In that dress growing ever tighter
It was saddening the lengths she had gone to
To appear more attractive
In the process losing something
We never knew but still missed
You knew you were lost as soon as you saw her
You saw your life as a series of complicated
dance steps
Impossible to learn, they had to come naturally
Together you squirmed and wriggled
And I could only jerk along behind